Tom-I am sorry I tend to respond from the emails instead of the site. I hope I didn't put you on the spot. I agree with you that the bad behavior does seem to win out time and time again. The whole I like the bad guy, or I like the "roughneck" has gotten many of us so called "smart women" into dumb situations. Lord knows my situation had gone from dumb to ridiculous. Hopefully I have learned the hard lesson and can move on to much better choices in the future :)