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I stopped by to visit my mom yesterday after work. Cam called me out on mom, and he is right. I don't visit with her or call nearly as much as I used to. He told me that he missed her and of course I can't have that. It was good to go, Angie and Troy were home and we ordered pizza watched a movie like old times. On my way home Don called supposedly to see when he could pick the boys up for their haircut but truthfully I think he just wanted to pick a fight. I don't know what it is but the minute I stop paying him attention and believe me when I say I am over it, I am not kidding. I have plenty going on in my day to day to keep me busy. But whenever I do he starts calling all the time and leaving nasty v-mails when I don't answer. Sigh...
I would really like to just move on. I would really like to say enough is enough have him agree and just move on. When he called during the election we were just chatting you know. It's hard for me to keep much venom with him. I have known him since I was 12, we have 2 sons. And truthfully I am just not the type for a whole lot of anger and drama. But unfortunately since I am not he takes that to mean we are ok again. My mom is always complaining that I am not more firm with him. Take him to court, make him this and make him that. I can't make Don do anything but sometimes I do think my nature of live and let live gives him the wrong impression. Does he make me angry with the way he neglects the boys to punish me? Of course. Should he be doing more to help? Of course. Can I hold a grudge and be all mad and yelling every time I talk to him? Or do I make things difficult for him when he does want to be with the boys? Nope. It's just not me...
nstig8tr was here and we met for lunch. I didn't realize how long it has been since we saw each other face to face. I had a really good time. Of course I tried to convince her to move here:) Once again Vikki came through for me and I took Cam with me. He charmed the ladies as he is known to do. But they can't have my baby. But make no mistake if nstig8tr or her friend Dawn were going to steal a 10 year old it would be mine...
I would really like to just move on. I would really like to say enough is enough have him agree and just move on. When he called during the election we were just chatting you know. It's hard for me to keep much venom with him. I have known him since I was 12, we have 2 sons. And truthfully I am just not the type for a whole lot of anger and drama. But unfortunately since I am not he takes that to mean we are ok again. My mom is always complaining that I am not more firm with him. Take him to court, make him this and make him that. I can't make Don do anything but sometimes I do think my nature of live and let live gives him the wrong impression. Does he make me angry with the way he neglects the boys to punish me? Of course. Should he be doing more to help? Of course. Can I hold a grudge and be all mad and yelling every time I talk to him? Or do I make things difficult for him when he does want to be with the boys? Nope. It's just not me...
nstig8tr was here and we met for lunch. I didn't realize how long it has been since we saw each other face to face. I had a really good time. Of course I tried to convince her to move here:) Once again Vikki came through for me and I took Cam with me. He charmed the ladies as he is known to do. But they can't have my baby. But make no mistake if nstig8tr or her friend Dawn were going to steal a 10 year old it would be mine...
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From:
nstig8r's friend (me)
It was a so nice to meet you. We have to get together sometime!
From:
Re: nstig8r's friend (me)
Yes we will definitely have to get together again soon...